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>>7484
First of all unless you really love people around you, you shouldn't take your cue for a worthy life from them.
Art... Depends on anime, most is mostly worthless, but the last 15 years in Hollywood was even more worthless, yet normies watch it.
Video games are good, but also kinda shit most of them unless there is a community you like.
Don't bother with being normal IMO, but if you still love and care, you won't be able to, because one leg will be going one direction and the other in another..
HOWEVER. Decide to dedicate at least one, maybe even two or maybe even more hours per day for physical improvement. This shit will haunt you unless you do it. Anything that you consider the most useful at the time. Moving is obviously important, but if you spend all this time on movement, you will only get 1 hour of movement per day and that can be not enough to keep you healthy. So ideally you would spend like 4 hours. Just find physical activities that you enjoy plus spend that time taking care of your teeth and I don't know even cooking healthy food for example, but you know stuff like cardio, resistance, hiit, stretching, massage, anything you can think of that you enjoy. So yeah, this shit is pretty important. There's a difference between being outside doing sports and sitting inside doing mental activities. Dedicate some time to this would be my advice.
The self-improvement, nose of the grindstone, sculpting the best version of yourself etc is cool. And very admirable. But you need a reason to do that. If you don't have close friends that you want to inspire.. I don't know dude, it's mostly useless and we all know it. Don't even know what to say. If you have inclinations towards that, I definitely don't want to get in the way of that, but you know, it's one thing to talk about it or think about it and it's another thing to do it. I'd say you need a reason. Ambition is a poor reason. Ego. If you don't care much about your ego, first of all you're not going to go far, second of all if you try to do it out of ambition, your ego is just not going to carry you. You need something more noble.
To be completely honest, curiosity is the greatest driving force that I know of. But I don't know your worldview and if you are even aware of the miracles around us. If you're not, then curiosity might not work for you.
There's also the childhood dreams type of stuff. Passion. You can do that if you have that. But that's also pretty hard to do without having friends. Having others who you admire and who inspire you and who you think are actually cool people. Although to some extent the passion for the thing itself, the dream of the thing itself, especially if it's like a childhood dream or some
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