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sorry yall i didnt know where else to post this and 4chan is fucking unusable lmao just looking for advice or input

my girlfriend doesn't seem to like to dance with me. i love dancing and my gf and i met dancing, she danced with me a little bit when we first met and almost even kissed me. we do still go out dancing and whatnot, we both love to dance, but she won't really ever dance *with* me like take my hand or grind up on me or anything.

we've talked about this a couple times and she says she likes to do her own thing and get lost in the music in her own world, and that the environment can be overstimulating which i understand. and also that she can feel self conscious and shy being really affectionate with me in public especially if we're at a club and there are people she knows there or something. personally i don't care, people can see and i don't care what they think.

last night she hurt my feelings a bit bc throughout the day it's true i was being a little overly affectionate, but her and i were dancing with a friend of hers out. of course i'm not going to be trying to make out with her in front of her friend esp since said friend is single, but at one point i was just dancing doing my thing (as i like to do as well, btw) and she says to me "i need you to turn around for a little while, i can feel your eyes on me" and this made me really upset because i felt like i was doing fine, like i was just doing my thing and yes i was watching a little bit because she's sexy and a great dancer but that made me feel self conscious.

idk guys. sometimes it just feels like she only wants intimacy when we have sex. idk, i'm upset bc i like to dance and i'd like for us to do it together, i see other couples do it all the time. i feel like she probably will never want to dance with me. the most i get is to twirl her around for a second. i like to do my own thing too but it feels like kind of a rejection or something.

we talked about it a bit and she said she was sorry and that it was bitchy of her. but i still feel upset not gonna lie, idk just need advice